Get comfortable with being Uncomfortable

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I often hear people say “I want to go to the gym but I feel stupid” or “i want to go but I have no idea what I’m doing” “I don’t like people watching me workout. Let me start off by saying this, growth and progress begin when you get out of your comfort zone!

yes workouts sometimes feel silly or you don’t want to sweat in front of people, whatever the case is…it is all in your head! People are all in the gym doing the same thing, there is nothing i respect or admire more about someone in the gym other than seeing hard work. I like to see people sweat and gasp for air, I give credit to those who lift heavy and let out those uncomfortable faces or sometimes even grunts. It just shows that you’re working hard for your body, and care about yourself and there will never be anything wrong with that. You have to start somewhere and that somewhere starts with being uncomfortable!

If your workouts are a breeze and you look perfectly comfortable and content, you are not working hard enough! break a sweat, take heavy weights that are going to make you sore.

Waking up with my legs, back or whatever body part i worked out sore is such a rewarding feeling. Yes, it is painful and sometimes those leg days really get you limping but when pain occurs thats when progress occurs. I for one hate waking up after a day of lifting and not being sore, I feel like my body is just being maintained but not changing. That is not always the case, but just know it is a good kind of pain.

Get in the gym, even if it is for 30 minutes and sweat as much as possible. Never be embarrassed, nobody is watching you as much as you think they are. Focus on yourself and what you are doing, do not worry about your surroundings!

Habits

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Bad habits are easy to pick up, and hard to break. We all have our guilty pleasure, and for most of us, its food. Now let me start off by saying it is nearly impossible to eat completely clean right after eating junk and completely sticking with it. And even if you do succeed (god bless you if you do, you are stronger than I am) It won’t become a lifestyle, more of a forced thing.

The key to eating healthy is to not deprive yourself. Take it step by step. If you are a soda drinker, let that be the first thing you cut out. They say it takes 21 days for something to become a habit, so just get through those 21 days.

Slowly stop snacking on chips, pick up some cheese and crackers. Do not reward yourself with pizza and donuts after a workout because than you’re just missing the point. Don’t completely cut out carbs, or sugar, just lessen it one step at a time. Once you see your body changing and feel better you’re gonna want to go further, and you’ll actually enjoy it, it won’t be forced. But do not feel bad about having a slice of pizza, just do not have it everyday.

I found that once i cute out 1 junk food at a time I eventually just did not want it, before i knew it my body, mind, and energy was completely different. Now if i eat close to the way i used to my body responds differently, I get sick and nauseous, which is a good thing! It makes me crave it less.

Now I know most of us are working, in school, or whatever the case is, making food is time consuming! Forget all those fitness accounts telling you you have to meal prep, and count your macros and calories, that is torturous! This is not to achieve perfection, but to better yourself.

I have a simple solution that takes up less time. By the healthier choice! You stop by wawa or dunking for a morning coffee and need breakfast? Reach for a egg and cheese not a muffin or a donut. Dunkin even has one of those low calorie spinach wraps, and they are delicious!

Craving something salty? Pick up some salted almonds and snack on them. There is no need to deprive yourself of food or count every single calorie you intake, just make sure you are making the healthiest choice you can make in whatever situation you are in. There have been times where I had a lunch break but the only place close by was a wends….it happens! And what do you do? you pick the healthier option. Get a chicken sandwich, skip the fries! sure it is still fast food, but it is better than the double stack fries and soda you were going to get. Do not stress yourself over little mistakes, just improve day by day!

Why I Started

Hello  all, and welcome, to my very first blog post. First off let me start off by explaining why i started this blog. Throughout my entire life and some of my high school career I was a twig. I never cared about weight loss or being healthy, for a good part of my life i was uncomfortable with how skinny I was, all i wanted was to gain weight. Well everyone, my wish came true and i gained that weight.

My junior year of high school there was a loss in my family and I turned to food for comfort. I kept putting on weight, and I could not stop myself. I would try to workout but i was on and off with it and after a workout I would reward myself with 3000 calories worth of snacks. Now don’t get me wrong I still was not “fat” but i was not comfortable with myself, and anyone who knew me knew that i put on a significant amount of weight. When I got to college I did not have the time to eat so the weight slowly came off and I loved hearing people tell me I lost weight, now I still wasn’t healthy but I loved keeping the weight off so I limited what I ate, and i would go to the gym most days.

By the end of my freshman year, i was once again, too skinny. I was obsessed with my gym routine, could not skip a single day, so what did I do? I started to pick up the weights and now its been about 2 years and I have never been happier with my body. The gym is no longer a chore, it is something I look forward to. Eating healthy is no longer my diet it is a lifestyle, i never crave fast food but if i want something I don’t deprive myself from it, I have it. I have it because I work hard and i deserve it. I have it because i know it will not become a habit again. I share this with you because I never thought I would be the person to get here. I hated sports, I hated physical activity, i was never good at it. I was lazy and loved food, I was completely content with being unproductive, and now I am a person who looks forward to waking up early. I am now a person who will squeeze a 40 minute workout in my schedule instead of a nap. If you told me two years ago I would be like this I would have laughed in your face and looked at you crazy. The point is I started, and you can too.